As if the world needed anymore evidence suggesting that certain humans among us continue to be more heinous and even less-civilized than any of our cave-dwelling, primitive ancestors—who once killed each other for sport, food, and entertainment—we now have another episode in the latest and most-horrific crime news.
This past week, an innocent ten-year old child from Denver, Colorado, a little red-headed angel with glasses and a space between her front teeth named Jessica Ridgeway, was stalked, offered candy, and lured into the jaws of the lowest form of life on this planet—a child molester/killer.
After using her little body for his personal sex toy, and with the 'fear of being caught' slowly sinking into his peanut-sized brain, this barbaric 'sicko' then tossed Jessica's lifeless little body aside like a worn-out porn movie—or an old used-up condom.
The sexual killer then chopped off the incriminating features of the the child, such as the fingers and head—placing the remainder of the tiny unrecognizable pieces into a trash bag—and leaving the entire gory mess in an open field not far from the child's home.
The girl's father is quite obviously, and understandably, devastated.
I have no doubt that the mother is also. But her pain is different.
Grieving is a process.
Seven detailed steps of a long and painful process is needed until a loved one can once-again function properly.
Shock is the first step—and, due to the human brain's built in safety mechanisms, the shock of a loved one's death oftentimes will prevent any tears from flowing. Sometimes no tears are seen until after the initial shock has subsided.
Pointing fingers helps nothing, and no-one. And because there are no outward signs of grief from this little girl's mother means very little—and, in my humble opinion, should not be used as a sign of guilt.
'Eyes for Lies' blog is not a FBI agent, a trained psychologist, or even a police officer. Yet she goes on and on regarding how the Mother is somehow involved, acting deceitful, and possibly knows 'who the killer is' and is somehow responsible for her owns child's abduction, sexual assault and subsequent dismemberment.
Crying is way down the list in the stages of the grief process.
I have no idea who the author of the blog called 'Eyes For Lies' is. But I'm certain it's a woman who has been damaged herself at some-point—perhaps during childhood, and is now looking for someone to blame for her own pain.
You can read her entire story by clicking this link or read the paragraph below as a preface to her irresponsible attempt at journalism and asinine allegations:
"Many of you have asked what I thought of Jessica Ridgeway's parents as they plead for the return of her daughter. While police are saying that Jessica's parents are not suspects, her mom's behavior is notable in one area. She gives us a fake cry. We see no oblique eyebrows, no stress in the forehead and no tears when she "breaks down". We don't see fear either. Did Jessica's mom have any boyfriends -- past or present? I'd be curious to know." - Via 'Eyes for lies.'
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" Roses are planted where thorns grow.
And on the barren heath
Sing the honey bees." ~ William Blake
Update: Arrest made in this case. Link click is here.
And on the barren heath
Sing the honey bees." ~ William Blake
Update: Arrest made in this case. Link click is here.
